Change Your Relationship with Money
// March 10th, 2009 // 5 Comments » // Success Tips
It’s true!
If you change how you relate to money, you will start to experience things and events that will enable you to increase your wealth. Change Your Relationship with Money, and create the money you want in your life!
Here are some tips in creating the relationship with money that will create a positive change in your wealth health. For those who want to get right at the answer click here» , for everyone that wants to read the tips continue on.
- Focus on abundance, not lack! If you complain about what you haven’t got, you’re placing all your energy and focus into creating nothing. If you hear yourself complaining about not having enough money,you know the self talk, stop yourself in that moment! Turn the negative statement into a positive one and focus your attention to abundance. This takes practice as I always say the process is simple however it is not easy. Stay resolute and focus on plenty and your prosperity will start turning round.
- Money is energy. Like the tides, it comes in and goes out and comes in again. It exists to represent the value of things in the world – and that includes the value you place on yourself, your experience, skills, knowledge and abilities. If money hasn’t been flowing as you want it to, look to how you value yourself. Do you have faith in what you can offer or provide? Do you have confidence in your abilities? Believe that you are worthy of reward. Believe that you deserve the wage, job or prospects that you desire. Raise your self-esteem, increase your value and your wealth will also increase.
- Money isn’t evil; it’s what we do with it that determines whether it is used with good or bad intentions. Being told that money, and the pursuit of money, is bad is full of guilt and envy riddled overtones, often spread by those who are jealous or lacking. With money, you can do great deeds in the world. You can support wonderful causes and spread your wealth to where it is needed. Be proud of your association with money by giving something back to society and realizing that it gives you the opportunity to bring about positive change.
- Don’t be precious about your money. Trying to hold on to your money or agonizing over it and begrudging spending it reveals that you are too attached. This over-attachment can bring about fear resulting in lack or financial misfortunes. Don’t hoard your money or be tight-fisted. Let your money flow. Pay your way through life without resentment. Be more generous about your money and consider the intrinsic value of what you’re gaining in return.
- Give a percentage of what you earn to a good cause. Spread your wealth and don’t begrudge doing so. By sharing what you have, and giving away some of your money altruistically, without worrying about lack or hoping to gain something in return, you are demonstrating a healthy relationship with money while also trusting in yourself and the universe to create abundance all round.
- Be positive about money. You may have grown up hearing many negative although perhaps well-meaning statements about money from your parents, friends or other family members. What is said often sticks in your mind and contributes in some way to your outlook on life. If you grew up believing that money is evil, that you need to guard your money, or that it’s hard to come by, this generates negative connotations about money that you are likely to carry through to adulthood. Only by re-programming those negative associations can you release the hold that money has over you. Once you are detached from money, it is actually free to start flowing to you so enhancing your prospects.
- Believe that you will always have enough of what you need. Focus on abundance at all times, but in a detached rather than grasping way. Trust that the money will flow. Don’t let money, or the pursuit of it, rule your life because it isn’t necessary and by doing so, you’ll miss out on all the other riches that life has to offer.
- Finally, be grateful for what you have and show or express your gratitude. By living graciously, and not taking anything for granted, you will be more appreciative of the abundance that comes your way.
The Short Answer… “Be Positive About Money.”
Focus on abundance and trust that you will always have enough. Believe that you are worthy of a great income and wealth but make sure you remain grateful and altruistic with your fortune. By changing your perspective and adopting a good relationship with money, your financial future will start to look healthier.
This article was inspired by a great book I have been listening to on audio called Happy Pocket Full of Money by David Cameron. I highly recommend the read or the listen. Here is my affiliate link to the site if you would like to have a look » www.imagesofone.com
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